Monday, August 27, 2018

How to be a real and true friend


hi friends,
Here I am with other post.

"A friend in need is a friend indeed" means a person who help you on a difficult times is your real friend.We have lots of friends but all are not our real ones. The real friend comes one all go out its real friend's identity they never leaves you.

so, then how do you find such friends. some are lucky that nature gives them such friends but all are not so lucky to have genuine friends. How do you find the real ones?


  1. Take the initiative that you are not to be lazy.
  2. Meet new people you don't find at home. 
  3. Don't be over sensitive , be confident to talk to people
  4. People like to make energetic, active, smiling people their friends.
  5. Be patient.
How to test your friendship that it is right or wrong for you:
  1. Be observant
  2. Watch if someone is playing with you or only using you
  3. Ask a friend for help.
How do you break up with fake friends :
  • Remove the benefit for the fake friend
  • Keep contact minimal.
  • Ask for advice for your genuine friends.

How do you find good friend :

As per my choice I think less people around is good for you,
but human is a social animal and party maniac so if you want some good friends
then make efforts as join some clubs, social clubs, gym, go to local events, join online forums,Use social media to engage with, make friends through friends.

How to be a Good Friend:

You are good by heart but you are observant in some matters.
You know when to be serious and when to be humorous.
Don't give up on them during their darkest hour.
Make them feeling wanted.
Understand and respect your boundaries.
Be honest and constructive when needed.
Jump to the rescue when asked.
Don't bring up uncomfortable subjects they dislike.
Be okay with gaps in conversation.
Know how to show you're happy for them.
Show small gestures on Occasion.
Keep in touch.

Thus, In every friendship there is ups and down but from understanding and patience we have to deal every relation. So be silly ,be childish and bloom your friendship.